She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

ever since seventh grade, i've had this "cute guy" complex because this girl told me that i probably can't get any because i'm too ugly. ever since then i've been letting cute guys use me for sex, abuse me, play with my emotions, just so hopefully one day they will be with me and i'll prove that girl wrong. why did she tell me this????? if you want to know how i look just go to www.myspace.com/

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how would you have taken what she told me?????

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

I think you're an idiot. Enough said.

No one but you can control your actions and feelings.

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

I would have whooped her *** cuz ur pretty n she is blind and jealous.

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

It was 7th grade. TIME TO GET OVER IT!

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

from your myspace pic you dont look ugly. a lot of peopl may say that ebcause theyre jealous. dont worry about it and be yourself.

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

she was just probably jealous of you or something....you should be the judge of how you look, not her

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

You are only as ugly as you see yourself and beauty is only skin deep. Move on, and make the best of what you DO have, and forget her words. I think it is time to let life go on.

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

one girl told you that..you are pathetic

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

Hell naw u look good

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

she was jealous, and i would have said i would have ignored, but thats impossible. She was probably jealous and had nothing else to do than make fun of you. ALso dont let guys use u :(%26gt;.

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

Treat yourself better, my dear. If the guy is an idiot, don't go out with them or sleep with them, or whatever you do.

You DO NOT need to believe what that girl said. Your profile pic on myspace makes you look just fine. You're not ugly, and to most guys I would think you'd be cute.

Find the good guys, girl, don't let anyone use you!

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

I cant see you well in the picture and you're private..

but dont let anything anyone says get to you.. in middle school girls are so mean, trying to get their "bad girl" or "popular" reputations up. you obviously let this one get to you.

its too late to change anything you've done though.. but dont beat yourself up over it.

and I would have taken offense, but not have let it get to me.. she obviously had something wrong with herself so she picked on you. I'm not the cutest thing either..

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but I dont let it get to me because I'm happy with myself.

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

I've seen your picture, and you are not ugly! I think you're pretty and that the other girl was jealous. she was trying to put you down so she could make herself feel better. One day you'll meet a guy who thinks you're gorgeous. But don't worry about what that girl said. she's just a jealous girl who has nothing better to do then make fun of others because she hates herself.

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

Sweetie,

You are beautiful! Get some counseling...and stop giving away your body and soul. I use to be just like you and one day an older woman told me that her momma told her, that every time you have sex with a person, you are giving them a piece of your soul that you will never get back. You deserve so much more! And one day a man will love you for you and not because you gave him sex. He will see the real you and the love you have inside. Get some help please! Don't wait until you are almost 40 like me. Learn now, so you have a better chance! My prayers are with you!

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

Kimberly said it a bit rudely, but, there is no way that such a statement, ESPECIALLY made by a /seventh grade girl/, should affect you that much. I think this 'complex' of yours is truly coming from within yourself. Slyly fishing for compliments isn't going to help you feel any better about your self. What would probably be best for you would be to go to some counseling and join a self-esteem group. Plenty of other people have problems just likes yours and if you want to you can break your bad habit! Best of luck to you!

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

never listen to what people have to say cause that wont get u know were she prople jelas of u she prople cant get any cute guys her self so she just told u u cant because she cant dont let men walk over u!!!!!!!! dont listen to what people have to say cause in the long run u are the one going to get hurt not her u know what im saying

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

Jealous people say a lot of hurtful things. You shouldn't give it a second thought. She was probably afraid you were going to get her boyfriend. Another thing to consider is, ugly doesn't only appear on the outside of someone. Appears to me the girl who said you were ugly was in fact very ugly inside. It's whats inside one that counts anyway. If your beautiful inside, you'll be beautiful outside. It just comes naturally.

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

You're cute, She's jealous.

Let it go, and love yourself.

Find your self worth. :~)

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

You are blaming this girl for your own insecurity issues. I am sure she was a witch, don't get me wrong; but it is YOU who are doing these things to yourself, not her.

YOU have been "letting" guys use you, abuse you, and play with your emotions---you admit that in your post. No wonder they don't respect you, or get with you seriously. If you want guys to treat you right, then don't do those things. You already seem to know that though, and are just bent on blaming some snotty girl from your past.

And I find that many (if not most) girls who post their pics and say "am I ugly?", arent really looking for an honest answer, or an answer at all for that matter. They want their egos fed by others saying "awww...no you're so pretty!" or "You're crazy! You look fine!". This is totally narcissistic.

From what you say, this is what I get (and I will not feed your ego by looking at your pics):

First, You know you look just fine. You want people to keep reassuring you of that, though. Try not to be so vain, or put so much stock in looks.

Secondly, you are using some snotty girl as a scapegoat for your own actions. Stop it. You know better than to let people use and abuse you.

And last---if you want a man to take you seriosuly, take your relationship with him seriously.

You already know all that though, don't you? You need a good friend to kick you in your butt and tell you to knock it off.

Good luck.

She told me i couldn't get any cute guys because i am too ugly! wtf???

thats horrible what that girl did and its hard to deal with something like that when youre only in the 7th grade. that is beyond mean...what would i have done? i probably wouldve talked to someone about it. its when you keep it to yourself that its hurtful and it does damage.

as for now, what you can do, is value yourself by NOT giving yourself away like that. a cute guy isnt going to KEEP you if you de-value yourself! it seems like your self-esteem might be shattered. that is something you need to fix BEFORE you find that cutie thats gonna be your man.

go to barnes and nobles and buy a book on self-esteem. the number one thing about self-esteem though...tell yourself GOOD, positive things you like about yourself and your appearance and have a "who-cares" attitude about what you dont like and cant change.

but my opinion on you, personally, is that youre a really cute girl! i saw your picture and i think your adorable-looking!

now you have to forget about what that dumb girl said and know that she was lying! do you know what ugly is??? ugly is deformed, and you are in no way even close to that!

so while you have this complex, try to work on yourself first and know that you dont have to end up with a cute guy that treats you like a doormat just because of this girl.

you are a cute cute girl!